Silence Please....!!!

We could be offered as a resistance if something is present in our way but what if, if there is nobody, yes there would be complete freedom and no resistance and it could be utilized or could not be. If there is absence which could not offer any force, could be the source of supreme power, flows and opportunities. There could be innumerable interpretation of the same as there is nobody who could claim whether it is right or wrong. We feel totally in home regarding anything which is left for the interpretation and one of the greatest in this category is silence. And here again I have freedom to discuss a few because I feel no resistance in my way.

What could be the most suitable definition of silence? You may say there will be silence if there would be no audible sound .So here we have take the shoulder of sound to define silence. So it is the absence of something which we could hear. Is this only the domain of silence? Then why it is so powerful, you could think that here I may be wrong while defining it or I have defined this in an incomplete manner. Yes! you are not wrong here,actually it is far more then what I said above because I had taken only when definition to it as there could be one more social definition that silence would be there if there would no communication between two or more than two persons. Again here we could feel the word absence because here, words are absent between persons that results silence. So it is the void or absence of vibration we can say better.

And if silence is the absence it can be filled. So here we can also say that this is kind of opportunity which is unattended or which can be utilized whenever there is a need. On the contrary many a times we feel the need of absence because being filled with so many garbage wordings, sounds or noise etc. So when the silence is the opportunity it acts like a background on where you can start something creative to fill it colorfully like a musician use the silence like the background and due to only this we could listen one the most beautiful creations. So silence is the most passive opportunity for the utilization and most felt need.

That’s why silence has been the most spiritual need because the quality it that could be filled up by the vibrations and vibrations could be of anything .Here mediator need spiritual vibration, her communication with the supreme power or with the something that has ability of being presents everywhere. So here it acts like a channel or the connector between the two. So here better I could say it is also the channel having infinite width and depth. Again we could say that it has infinite amount and presence.

Is there any degree or level of the silence or the depth silence has? The answer could be no but yes it depends on the level you have or the need you have or the how much exhausted you are. Then it itself could make you realize its deepness or gravity .how can you know the depth until you fall. Here I go only the impact of something could realize you better what is the height or what is level of acceleration you need to have to reach.

Silence also has great ability to measure the level of comfort between two people, it doesn’t matter whether they know each other or not as we could catch the example if two strangers are sitting near by they could feel the wave comfort or discomfort based on the silence they have backed by non verbal signals and gesture .And in the same way two friends or relative may share the silence based upon their mutual understanding and also they may share stressed silence backed by a few consequences they shared in the past. So it has spectrum we can feel the shade of it.

Whenever it comes between the two people they love each other it sounds like a pain and then it speaks louder than any word and as we all know pain is like a treatment when taken as a positive way so by the same fashion when pain of the silence is taken in the positive way it cure our relationships.

So we should always keep the importance of silence in our life and moments, it is very valuable and vulnerable too. It has tall range and infinite spectrum as it is the part of greatest nature and almighty as we could see both are very silent yet most effective in our life.....-abhijeet@Mindspa.

Be the better listener than COFFEE...!!!!

Yes it has been a cliché that coffee is good listener, When we were younger it was just coffee. Now it’s latte, frappucino, Macchiato, Mocha and all kinds of other strange words, but again I want to say that it is only the good listener, not the better one so the position is still vacant for you. But why we said coffee is the good listener? Maybe it could listen our mind while we sit alone with it then anything could be the good listener which is not the bad taste of your mouth .Again you are thinking that I have some personal hostility with coffee? The big no is the answer but my concern is not the coffee but the important of listening in the life whatever it be if coffee suits you go with it and do listen what your mind and heart says or what somebody you’re near and dear says as it is really soothing for the speaking mind and listener.

Again speed of the life is constant i.e. seconds are fixed in each minute but again it is accelerating like anything and as the time passes we get to know that how fast it has been .The big problem with the fast life is nobody has time to give and here time has been symbolized like a money. If you have time and skills both you can convert your time into money making tools for yourself. There are so much everywhere, so much to do, so much to understand, so much to create, so much leave ,so much to expect, so much to share ,so much to lose etc  but we forget this has created one more so much ,on which our senses don’t go i.e. so much to listen.

Again I am falling for the coffee and it is interesting to know that we consume billion of cups coffee per year and it is the second biggest commodity which has been traded after oil and we call it good listener so listening ear should not be the problem anymore but is one of the biggest problem, we don’t find anyone who could listen us better or peacefully, Laughter, but again if we put aside the data and think about the date with one cup coffee things become more clear as alone we could listen ourselves better through the channel of one cup coffee. 

Whatever the problem whether it is small or big ,when it come into our life we want solution but before that we seek the listening ear and if we find the same it seems problem half solved. And one of the biggest problem now a day’s our attention spans are shorts, we have huge data and information inflow at every now and then, whether we are watching TV, surfing net on mobile devices and so on and this has been also the great hindrance while listing to somebody or paying attention on something.

But why the listen is so important in our life and if it is not there what could be the consequences well again I want to say that all we see the series of consequences ,sometime we could figure out the reason and many a times we could not. The results are broken relationships and hearts, lost personalities, stress or tension, nervous breakdown and many more kind of problems. To listen carefully is the symbol of love and care and it is not there and you have replaced something else with it , the result would be not favorable. So every good relationship or friendship has roots in the better listening and understandings. 

Many a times due to love and care we unknowingly achieve that level where we could understand what has not said. So it is the just upper crust but for this we have to cross the very first level of listening and understanding. Only then we could observe the healthy relationships.

Here i am not going to list down the tips how you could listen better but my concern here is the importance of the same in our life as like a simple sober coffee which seems very small part of our day life yet very indispensable as without it we feel incompleteness in our routine and  like this we have same small but great importance of listening .Listening to our near and dears who make our life worth living and to whom we give and take memories, moments, stories, buzz of excitements and other lots of stuff, which we could discuss over a warm cup of coffee and only then we could make life worth living and looking back.....  -abhijeet@mindspa